Chocolate Love - Part Two

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Delving once more into Femdom kink

A snippet of an email I have sent to My long distance submissive today. We have been in contact now for many years. Recently reconnected, as we always do. There is something magical there. It works perfectly. Not as the relationships you may know and understand, but something else. Total power exchange (TPE) indeed. 


Whatever happens, whatever is said, however long we are out of touch, I am simply his Mistress and he is simply mine.


I will not let go of his perverted little slave heart, where else would he go?


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'Still awaiting that day when I can stalk up to you and give you that slap around the face you'd beg Me for.

I have perverse fantasies of pushing you against your limits, making you remain bound under the bed whilst I enjoy my usual nightly routines upon it... or just leashing you to the base of the bed, ready to lick up.... ~sigh~  but you wouldn't want to please Me this way, would you.

I want you in lingerie... underneath your pinstriped, smart suit. The stockings seen when you sit and the trouser leg raises up to reveal the sheer, black material. The suspender straps just barely visible upon your thighs as you sit and desperately hope noone will see or notice. To slip my hand up your leg as I sit next to you in an office.. on a train... in a busy coffee shop or restaurant or bar... slip my hand up in a motion close to affection but my smile is one of sadistic love, not romance. And as I pluck the strap so it pings against your flesh, your grimacing, humiliated face gives me all the eroticism I need - the sudden pooling of desire between my legs tells Me so.

To make you yelp and bark and beg to even be able to touch yourself... and even then, in front of Me, on your knees, legs spread, palms either flat on the floor in front of you, head parallel to the floor, or resting upright on your spread thighs, eyes downcast awaiting instructions. Lift that arse higher in the air for Me, bitch. That's right My little puppy dog in heat - I want you wiggling that arse like you have your desperate tail attached there. Maybe if you please Me enough I'll satisfy it's longing for a good hard raping, with My strap on... 

I want you to take Me like a woman, seduce Me, wine & dine Me for the evening, dressed up to the nines, sleek, elegant, sophisticated with a tangible air of class. Arm in arm, we shall visit the best places in town. But the evening shall be far more than what is immediately apparent to onlookers eyes. I will tease you mercilessly all evening, my nipples straining as My unrestricted breasts rise and fall with my breathing, beneath the clinging satin fabric of My long dress. The delicate straps 'accidentally' falling from My shoulders regularly. The curve of my hips seductively drawing your lustful gaze every time you watch as I bend to retrieve something from My handbag, adjust the straps of My heels, or simply tease you with the view. To return from the restrooms to simply, calmly, look at you while I hand you the tiny scrap of damp material that formed my underwear until a few moments ago. 

.... and so much more....

You do realise this all just falls from My fingers when speaking with you. It isn't general typing, this doesn't come easily usually. I cannot write like this for another, simply cannot muster enthusiasm, imagination or desire, not in this way anyway.

Missing you My little puppy slut

Mistress

x 

I slept locked up last night....

...ankles and wrists restrained to the bed. Although naturally Dominant I do enjoy bondage and playing games, as long as they satisfy some longing for me of course!


We had been out for the evening, drink and good food intermingling with a glorious sense of relaxation, turning to enjoyment of each other and desire for more fulfilment. 


Once home it didn't take long for us to begin to indulge these carnal desires and we spent hours once again enjoying each other. A certain someone may have dressed as a naughty school girl... ~blushes~


He secured me into the two sets of chained together cuffs and secured the wrist ones around the head of the bed. I laid all night, stretched out, next to him, ready for his teasing and torment whenever he wished it.


Not only that but he left me one parting shot of evil before sleep... a bullet turned on, set nestled between my lips, the tip resting on my clit....


... and left like that all night until the battery died.

The Journey to a Self Made Orgasm

I'm wondering today, how many orgasms per week one needs in order to feel fulfilled. Perhaps several each day, several an hour? Or are you a one-a-day man or woman? How do you choose to travel to this destination?

Even though I could orgasm daily, I choose not to. Why? I like to build up the anticipation.

My particular libido means that I require mental stimulation as well as physical. I feel that my orgasm is not merely a physical need but rather a release from erotic mental/emotional stimulation.

Oh sure, I get those times where I feel I simply have to cum, or else I'll explode. But for the most part, as long as I orgasm every three or four days, I am ticking along nicely.

I have had some comments from people not understanding my enjoyment of the week+ chastity while my new clit hood bar made my clitoris unavailable for stimulation. This delves into the fetish territory of chastity, which is the enjoyment (or not, I guess! but always consensual activity) of orgasm denial.

Chastity can involve teasing or not. You may wish to be fitted with (or fit to your parter) a female, or male, chastity device.

Personally I always like to remain in control, but I do have masochistic tendencies that run synonymous to my sadistic side. I'm particularly kinky!

This means that I will abstain from orgasms until the need is just touching intolerable, to really glean the most enjoyment from making the anticipation last. Building that sexual tension into a frenzy, either alone or by being teased by various lovely friends. You know who you are!

In the past, I have refrained from an orgasm for two years. This was with an ex who did not 'allow' me to have sex toys, plus I did not orgasm through sex with him. After months of denial, my libido all but died anyway, so the torturous agony wasn't there.

The trick is getting that balance between orgasming too much (in this context, as I can hear shouts of, 'you can't orgasm too much!') so that it becomes instant gratification, merely flicking a button (!), and not orgasming often enough so that your libido disappears and any chastity enjoyment along with it.

My lovely man is purely vanilla and does not participate in anything beyond mildly kinky. I feel that I would only be able to lightly touch upon chastity play with a woman anyway, one that I trust and who I could give myself over to sexually, in the bedroom only, for fun.

For the most part, I tease myself to a point of needing to climax. Whether wearing butt plugs for a while, a love egg along with it or simply edging almost to climax then stopping, with a bullet, or just some lube and fingers... I enjoy the long drawn out journey to orgasm more than simply a race to the finish line.

This delicate weaving journey, alongside erotic mental stimulation (filthy talk, role play etc) and romantic tangible accoutrements mean that the final release is so much more fulfilling. Your entire soul is caught up in the pure delights of the moment, rather than simply ending the frustration of the nerve endings.

How do my readers feel about this, I wonder? Do you masturbate simply to end that need, as often as possible? Or do you enjoy the tease along the way?

What is the most fulfilling route to orgasm for you? Think about it, then comment below!


Have fun & stay sexy, blog angels!


Cara

xxx




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Fetish Fantasy Straitjacket - From SexToys.co.uk!

Fetish Fantasy Straitjacket

The simply gorgeous people at sextoys.co.uk kindly sent me a wonderfully deviant straitjacket to test and review for them!

Those of you who know me will already know of my passion for the freakily fetish, kinkily crazy and the positively perverted in this world.

This jacket certainly meets all the above criteria! Presented in a clearly marked and attractively bedecked with models, box, the straitjacket enclosed also arrives with a free novelty blindfold for added naughtiness.

Reading that the material was polyester had me imagining that this jacket would be easy to rip or tear out of. I couldn't have been more wrong.

The material is strengthened and so tough due to a cross stitch weave that it mimicks the traditional canvas straitjackets very well indeed. I defy anyone to escape this jacket once they are buckled into it. Even allowing for passionate struggles after plentiful teasing!

The jacket fastens up the back and at the collar with tightened straps, the arms cross over and fasten at the back in the same way. Straps for the legs mean that the material will not rise up and your victim... volunteer... will be beautifully bound and ready for you to have your wicked way with them.

Leaving the sexual area free means many types of sexual play abound with this item, either vanilla/normal intercourse or a more deviant chastity play using tease and denial, perhaps combined with chastity devices such as the ones found here.

I also love the D ring at the front of the neck part which is perfect to attach a clip leash to, plus the addition of a spreader bar between the ankles, thighs, or both would render the randy recipient entirely open to your wanton whims!

What I really enjoyed was watching my man's face as he realised he really couldn't escape from my evil and wicked clutches as I went to work over his quivering body. No escape!

The jacket is suitable for a male or female and is available from sextoys.co.uk now, just click here to purchase yours today!










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