Sex Toys - Hot off the Sheets!

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Piercing update: All healed!

See my other related piercing posts, first plans here, the completion here and the first update here.

I was asked this morning how my piercings are getting on, as I haven't mentioned them recently! Well it is true I have been rather distracted thanks to being quite busy lately, a few of you may have noticed.

Family life, parents possibly getting back together, my son having events at school, general life and chores.

More sexily, having much slippery tingly fun with my hoard of sex toys, candles, lubes and other kinky items!

My piercings are doing very well indeed. Seem to have healed nicely now, with some rather unnerving but at the same time nice sensations as the metal bars move through the holes.

Sometimes I forget, which can cause some discomfort. For instance, I must sleep on my stomach, so any wriggling in the night can pull on the navel bar. Also I have to be careful in tight jeans or the way I tend to quickly move in my chair sometimes so I don't tug the clit hood bar too much the wrong way... can be slightly ouchy.

All in all, they are gorgeous though and I love them.

The sexiest piercing is obviously the vertical clit hood one. This moves freely through the piercing now, so I can feel the metal there constantly as a reminder of my sex. Any urgent need to orgasm is only heightened by the metal touching and stroking on my erect clit as I walk or sit. Drives me deliciously insane... *smiles*

I have been able to play lately, which is a very good job seeing as I have a mountain of dildos! Ok not just dildos, but many other things. I just like the term Mountain of Dildos (new version of the MoD perhaps?)!

Cannot wait until I can shop and fit some new sparkly bits (jewellery, people! pay attention), I'm not exactly bored of these yet but a girl does like variety. I have seen a beautiful fairy navel piece (as shown in the picture above) and some very intriguing shapes & spirals for the clit.

Maybe I will take some pictures... if there is enough call in the comments below! Let me know what you want to see, why and when. I'll seriously consider all requests!


Until next time, stay sexy blog angels!



Cara

xxx

Feeling the Heat on a Monday Morning

What a fabulously sunny Monday morning! Kids are back at school, there's a smile on my face and a twinkle on various parts of my body.

Despite the sunshine it's not quite warm enough yet to use my Durex Massage Melts, although they are in the freezer ready to be popped out and melted as I... well... melt heatedly and hopefully pop.

Speaking of explosive relief, I finally couldn't wait any longer. I had made the decision yesterday (in a calm and controlled manner of course, not frenzied and desperate at all) to wait until this morning to renege on my 'hand made' orgasms awhile and revert to my bullet for a soothing and much needed climax.

During the early morning walk in the surprising April sunshine, my titanium, diamante ended barbell teased me as I paced and mulled the plan over. I returned home and with nervous anticipation, shut and locked the front door behind me with a determined, decided click.

Foccussed now, I removed my jacket and hung it over the banister at the bottom of the stairs before going up to my bedroom. My 'bag of bullets' lay half unzipped on my dresser, a visible sparkling gleam or two of metal already teasing me with promises of relief.

Following mental instructions as though I were in some Beautiful South song, I removed my clothes and lay on the bed. Bullet in one hand, the other fondling the half familiar, half new to my fingers pierced hood.

I groaned in need. This was so required, right now. I needed to cum, then and there. Sunlight blindingly streaming through the gap in the curtains, spotlighting me for heaven's morning show.

The moment that bullet hit the combination of the metal sparkling bauble and my humming with tingling desperation hard little clit, I knew I had only moments before I tipped over that waterfall of light and sexual energy. A week of pent up surging, pulsing need and constant teasing, physical and mental, brought me to that, quite literal, point.

I didn't even need any of my lube.

I lay stretched out on the bed, naked, clothes strewn about me, and writhed, moaned, mewled and screamed affirmatives to God for the enormous, devastating, spine chilling, clit numbing, pussy melting, brain emptying orgasm I had.

Yes, I thought. That's the way to start the week!

Of course, now I need to somehow deal with my clit bar rubbing over a newly exhausted, hyper sensitive and entirely exposed clit...

Damn. Back to the teasing board.


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How I'm Feeling....

Tired, tender and tingling!

A busy week of blogging has kept me distracted somewhat but it is getting increasingly difficult to ignore the spreading heat and tingles of need in my sex, particularly around my poor denied, chaste, throbbing pierced clit.

The sparkling diamante end of the barbell rubs against my erect clit as I walk, as I sit, as I do anything. A constant reminder of my need and growing urgency to climax.

A week today since my last orgasm, I haven't been chaste this long in.... years.

My lovely friends have all enjoyed teasing me and to tell the truth, I have been rather enjoying it, in an entirely perverted, masochistic way! There is something to be said for anticipation rather than instant gratification. A teasing build up, time to enjoy the racing sensations, along with thoughts and fantasies, punctuated in a very real way by the titanium bar tugging and stimulating the tight bundle of nerve endings waiting rather impatiently to erupt.

I haven't been dissauading any teasing; rather, I have been actively encouraging it!

All this brings me to a crossroads: I feel that I could orgasm right now, if I lay my sweet vibrating bullet just under the bar and against my clit... soothing it to it's long awaited explosion. This however would mean that I break my orgasm training regime whereby I want to be able to have 'hand made' orgasms again, without the use of a vibrator. I can't very well rub my clit to orgasm right now, with the bar so new and tender...

I could use my anal toys and combine with a vibe in my pussy... but this will not necessarily lead to climax for me. I have always been very much a clit stimulation sort of girl.

Yes, I do regret not training for penetrative orgasms now! Perhaps I should give my Sqweel an outing, after all I do require a soothing licking all over my jewelled hood and fiercely plump clit.

For the moment, the enjoyment of tease and denial outweighs the need for orgasm. I am a woman after all, patient, used to suffering.

When the need for orgasm overtakes the enjoyment, I will reach for my vibe and Sqweel. For now....

The tenderness, teasing and tingles continue.

I have a clit complex... and a complex clit!

Until next time, stay teasingly sexy, blog angels


Cara

xxx

My Strap On Harnesses & Dildos

Cara's Strap On Harnesses & Dildos 

I wanted to write a blog post about the strap on harnesses I have and the dildos I use with them. I own three strap on harnesses:

• Sportsheets Sedeux Velvet Harness with Vibrating Bullet
• Vac U Lock Lucid Dream No 9
• Sharon Sloane Latex Double G Pleasure Briefs

Firstly, we will cover the Sedeux. The Sedeux Harness comes with three size O rings, which any flare base or harness compatible dildo (or vibrator) will fit into.

The sizes of the rings are: 1.5", 1.75" and 2". These are the perfect range of sizes to fit most dildos I've come across.

If I did require any more/replacement O rings, the Sportsheets O-Ring Set of 4 is a good price and also includes the smaller 1.25" ring - useful for teeny beginner toys! 

I like my Sedeux Harness because it is very versatile, fitting a waist anywhere between my 26 inches and up to a maximum of 68 inches. So I'm ok for the ice-cream party! The leg straps will fit between 14 up to 34 inches circumference. I'm loath to say it will fit any woman... but you can see how adaptable this item really is!

The front panel is sweetly padded and has a very tactile velvety surface. Down the centre of this pad is a secret pocket, inside which you may wish to place the accompanying bullet that comes with the Sedeux Harness. This bullet is amazingly powerful and really helps you get your rocks off whilst using the strap on. You can see how much I loved the bullet in my product review at LoveHoney.

The handy thing about the clit bullet pocket is that I can use pretty much any bullet that I choose in this space, such as my favourites, either the Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet or the RO-80mm Ammunition Love bullet.

The o rings, and therefore any attached dildos, are held to the padded front section by means of four heavy duty popper fasten studs. These securely hold your toys of choice in position whilst you make love to your lucky recipient/intimidate your victim (depending on the setting of your session!)

The easily adjustable buckle style straps around your legs mean that you have full motion available to your legs, as they are attached to each one separately, not binding them together. This also leaves your own sexual area free to be filled with not only vaginal toys but also anal plugs if you wish to really turn the heat up a notch or two...

Imagine using this whilst filled with perhaps... a remote controlled love egg with 10 settings, a small, medium or large Doc Johnson Butt Plug and the small but powerful bullet snugly trapped against your erect clit. Even thinking about it has me close to the edge!

The dildos I have used with my strap ons vary in size, so I have one for every occasion! For use with the Sedeux, I have the butt plugs, Super Slim Butt Plug 5 Inch and the Doc Johnson Crystal Jelly Anal Delight, both in purple. Well I had to accessorise with the purple colour on the Sedeux Harness, I am a girl, after all!







The regular dildos I have that fit the Sedeux are: Basix G-Spot Dildo 5 Inch (purple again!), Basix Realistic Slim 7 Inch Dildo (you guessed it, in purple) and the Extra Thick 9 Inch Solid Cock & Balls With Suction which let me tell you now, is HUGE. Scarily so!

Still working my way up to taking the shockingly wide 9 incher myself... perhaps a willing volunteer will be able to take it for me? *grin*


So that's the Sedeux Harness and my collection of accompanying bullets and dildos covered.

The Vac U Lock Lucid Dream No 9 Harness comprises the world famous Doc Johnson Vac U Lock Harness system and a special G Spot Dildo attachment.

You have the option of purchasing the standard Vac U Lock Ultra Harness if you wish for the harness without the specialised G Spot attachment.

Any Vac U Lock compatible dildo will fit on to this vacuum sealed plug system. The system works incredibly well, a simple pop on and pop off release mechanism which I find to be even more secure than the Sedeux.

You may wish to ease the fitting of dildos to the plug by means of this powder. Replacement plugs can be bought in time and there are even special double ended plugs so that you can enjoy being filled from the other side of the same attachment, in much the same way as my much loved Doc Johnson Junior Double Dildo 12 Inch fills and thrills both my partner and I.

At the moment, the only two dildos I have which fit my wonderful Vac U Lock are the pink G Spot attachment in the box it came with, and I bought the more realistic and entirely thrilling Classic 8 inch Dong.

Due to the open crotch design of the harness, you are again able to combine your strap on session with both vaginal and anal play, and the harness itself is very easy to both fit and use. To quote a playmate, its like 'having [your] very own cock!'

The Sharon Sloane Latex Double G Pleasure Briefs aren't strictly speaking a strap on I guess, as they are an all in one moulded and fashioned panty that has an internal dildo (5 inches) and an external one to use on and in your partner (7 inches) without the option of exchanging these.

Having said that, the price is very agreeable and perfect for those strap on newbies or anyone unsure if strap on play is for them. These briefs are easy to wear and come in a small, medium or large size, which I would advise would be to fit a maximum of a UK 16.

The stretchy latex is ideal for a gentler type of play and the soft spongy texture of the dildos make for a tender experience rather than a rigid and rugged session.

Be aware that latex does tear with frequent stretching and/or rough use so these are not likely to be as long lasting an invesment as the Sedeux or Vac U Lock!

I like to combine some role play with my strap on, fitting condoms to the dildos and suchlike. For anal play this also has the dual purpose of keeping the toys as clean as possible which is always a plus!

Make sure you have some good lubes to hand, I personally love the Durex Play Feel, the Sliquid Organics Natural Warming Lubricant, or Liquid Silk. A water based lubricant is always a good idea to avoid any damage to your silicone or latex toys, plus avoiding any skin irritations for those more sensitive types.

I hope you have enjoyed the little wander through my strap on harnesses and products, for more reading on the subject why not check out LoveHoney's Strap-on Harnesses Style Guide plus their fantastic The Easy Guide to Strap-On Harnesses, Compatible Dildos and O-Rings.

Have fun, play safe and stay sexy!

Cara

xxx



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Piercing Plans Completed!

Well as you will all remember, I blogged a few weeks ago about my Perverted Piercing Plans. Yesterday, on a lovely sunny day out with Mike, I had these done!

We travelled to the same lovely piercing and tattoo parlour that we used for Mike's nipples last time (I figured he never bled or had any pain, so I'd be fine) and I signed up for both the navel and the vertical clitoral hood piercings before I could change my mind.

True, a Monday morning after a late and hazy Sunday night may not have left me in the most rational, clear and sane frames of mind but nonetheless I'd wanted them done for a while. No time like the present.

And what a present they were! The lovely girl at Apus explained the procedures thoroughly to me and allowed me to choose the jewellery I wanted in each piercing. I chose a diamante titanium for my clit and a dark pink stone surrounded with gold coloured titanium for my belly-button. Pretty!

She took them through to the small clinical room and I was informed that the worst one would be done first, the clit. Reassuring! Removing my underwear, I laid on the bed. Nervously. Looking up, I saw a gap above the walls of the cubicle style room and knew that there was a crowd of people in the foyer, including Mike, waiting. I was determined not to make a screaming scene.

Showing me that the needles were sterile she warned I'd have to take a deep breath. Hang on don't they numb piercings- OUCH! - that hurt! She grabbed my clit hood firmly and stuck the needle straight through. The pain! Well that was the worst part over.

But then again... -OUCH!... - she had to attach the ball to the other side of the piercing and that absolutely killed. Right. All done there.

The navel one was wonderful, she was able to freeze and numb the area with a special spray. She explained (after the event, funnily enough) that they couldn't freeze genital ones and the spray would probably dissolve the skin. Lovely.

It was all in all quite a painful day yesterday. I was expecting the clit piercing to continue being the most painful but it was in fact the navel one that caused the most discomfort. Took hours to stop bleeding and even after three changes of clothes it still hurt when I moved. It's in just the right place to be disturbed when you bend in any way and the movement of the metal caused both fresh pain and bleeding.

By 7pm I was ready for bed. Mike took his leave from my house, after a full day of shopping, lunching, chatting... and I would have fallen into bed if it weren't for the metal and holes in various parts of me.

After bathing the clit with my rock salt wash and cleaning the navel one with the spray and cotton buds I was ready to turn in for the night. Trying to sleep on my back, unusually for me.

I do love my new piercings, I cannot wait to shop for more jewellery and of course take some pictures to show you lovely blog angels out there!

Day 2 of my new piercings today... wish me luck!

To Catch an Orgasm

Well I am enjoying a lovely holiday weekend. Eaten far too much chocolate but never mind. Monday morning and yes, it is still a holiday but a fresh start. Summer beckons as do scary body revealing garments (ahoy bikini!) therefore I really must desist this habit of emptying the entire contents of the kitchen into my stomach every weekend! *sigh*

I had a lovely surprise on Saturday night. To give you some background, I have suffered with a terrible affliction for about 7 or 8 years now. I'm addicted to sex toys. In particular, my Tracey Cox Supersex bullet and whichever butt plug and vibrator happen to be around at the time.

An orgasm has been simply impossible without the vibrations of these addictive little novelties. Whenever I would be at a certain point either during self stimulation or sex, there would come an interruption of, "Oh I'm sorry darling would you pass me my bag of tricks, I simply must have my bullet". Hardly normal or complimentary. I'm sure my man felt slightly useless, not being able to complete my pleasure by himself.

It's my own fault though. It all started with purchasing a rabbit vibe at Ann Summers all those years ago and ever since, I've been hooked on sex toys.

Now sex toys are wonderful, but I would love them to merely be an addition to a full sex sex and functioning body parts, not a replacement or a need.

Back to Saturday. I had been teased all day (you know who you are, meanie) and was feeling tingly and excited as it was. I simply had to orgasm, but wanted to hold off as long as possible. My underwear had been soaking since lunchtime and they were the third pair that day.

Off to bed I went and feeling slightly naughty, I wanted to be filled. I inserted a dildo plug into my arse and a large dildo up my sopping wet, hungry pussy and wore some tight knickers over the top. Writhing in bed, I was just getting wetter and wetter, as my filled holes were crying out for an orgasm.

My clit was engorged, throbbing, screaming at me to be touched, rubbed, flicked.

My pussy was contracting around the dildo and I was feeling such a filled, fucked whore. Filthy slut, sleeping filled like this.

Squeezing some lube onto my fingers, I could take no more. They made their way into my knickers and brushed the wetness over my already slippery smooth folds and sensitive clit.. it howled.

Bringing my fingers to and fro across it, with light strokes, I could feel my legs trembling as I spread them like an eager, wanton harlot. I needed this. I could sense my orgasm building.

Trying not to get ahead of myself I concentrated on the feelings, the sensations. Which speeds felt good and where to press, where to lightly brush over and where to mash my sodden fingers into.

With a piercing explosion of light, the orgasm shattered my world. My hips rose off the bed and my muscles contracted around both dildos, feeling them intensely penetrating me, fucking me like the needy vixen I am.

My clit leaped and danced under my pressed in, happy little fingers.

I'd done it! I'd finally cum without my bullet or any vibrations! So, so happy.

I'll be continuing my training this week... to help with this I've obviously had to buy a couple of dildos to celebrate with *blush* You can see them here and here.

Last night during sex with my gorgeous man I tried again but it just didn't work, perhaps I felt rushed or shy. I didn't resort to reaching for my bullet as I usually would have, I simply enjoyed the sex with him and was content to try again at a later time.

If I need to be thoroughly wound up and teased in order to have a natural orgasm, then I will simply have to get to that point again.

Watch this space for updates on my clit & pussy training! Once I've mastered (Mistress-ed?) the art of a natural clit orgasm I'll be working on penetrative orgasms.

I'm sure this little treat during the day will help to get me nice and excited!

My sex life can only get better and better!

Until next time, stay sexy, blog angels

xxx

Perverted Piercing Plans

Last night I finally made the firm decision to get a couple of piercings done, which I had been mulling over for some time.

My friend Mike has recently had both his nipples pierced and I feel this has helped ease any fears I had regarding the piercing process. Also it helps that the piercing ladies are HOT. Grin.

So... where am I getting pierced, I hear you ask! Well my navel for starters. A nice little glistening jewel in my belly button. Red of course, my favourite colour.

Secondly I want to get my clit pierced. I sense winces from my female audience! I will expand.

There are three kinds of clit piercings, a fact I was not previously aware of:

• Through the clit piercing (ouch)
• Horizontal clitoral hood piercing
• Vertical clitoral hood piercing

The easiest and least painful of these, I have read, is the vertical clitoral hood piercing. This is the one I'm getting! Not just because of the pain of other options, but because where the bar will begin and end in me, will hopefully lead to tingling arousal whilst moving about.

Some fun times to be had in the future! Healing times are between 4-6 weeks so I'll be all pierced up ready for summer.

Also bearing in mind that I will be atttending Erotica in London in November, who knows which lucky lady will be offered the chance to get up close and personal with my new decorations!

Planning to get these piercings done within the next two weeks so I will keep you updated on my progress!

Until next time, stay sexy, blog angels

xxx

Introducing SexToys.co.uk!

I was recently lucky enough to be introduced to this wonderful uk based sex toys company, and sent three items to test and review.

First of all, the RO-80 'Ammunition' bullet. This is one extremely powerful, sleek and discreet clitoral bullet vibrator. The precision crafted, smooth tapered tip delivers extremely strong stimulation exactly where you want it most.

The side is attractively embossed with the RO-80 logo, proudly displaying its high quality heritage, and the waterproofing rubber sealing ring means you can have naughty orgasmic fun in the bath or shower too!

This is a one speed toy with easy click on/click off touch button control.


I highly recommend investing in a strip pack of N size batteries from eBay, which is the cheapest place I have found. Nothing worse than reaching for your favourite bullet and realising you're out of batteries!


Simply put: all women should own this bullet. Buy yours today... click here now!

Next, the Mini Mates Fever. This is the sex toys connossieur's upgrade to the RO-80! An absolute beast of a machine with 5 vibration settings and still entirely waterproof.

The Mini Mates Fever vibrator integrates the large and power packed RO-120 bullet with an easy clean velvet touch silicone sleeve for your choice of either clitoral or penetrative play.

Perfect for either solo fun or play with a partner, this versatile toy feels fantastic. With a bit of spicy imagination you will enjoy this toy for a long time to come. I would note however that I would not recommend this toy for anal play, as there is nothing to stop it getting lost! Stick to vaginal or clitoral action, or use as a body massager for you or your partner.

Covered with a removeable medical grade silicone sleeve, this toy is kept especially clean and hygienic. Additionally, you should of course use a safe toy cleaner such as this one, also available from Sex Toys Uk.

We move on to something for the bunny lovers! Rampant rabbits are probably the most commonly known sex toy in the uk, thanks to high street adult merchant, Ann Summers.

At this juncture, I must confess that I am not a huge fan of rabbit toys, as I find the phallus part, the rotating beads and the clitoral vibrating ears all too close together to be of any useful stimulation.

I much prefer to use a separate dildo or vibrator with a clitoral bullet, such as the RO-80 above, so that both parts of the action are entirely in my control.

That said, if you are a fan of rabbits, then this Jessica Rabbit Ultimate will certainly fulfil your needs.

Easy separate vibrating action for the ears and the beads/dildo, a variety of settings and being waterproof all combine to make this a good all round rabbit toy.

As I have often found with rabbit toys, it is heavy on the batteries, taking 4 AA type. Quite power hungry but on the plus side, the batteries are easier to acquire than N or watch batteries than some smaller toys take!



Visit Sex Toys Uk today and have a browse through their vast range of bullets, vibrators, rabbits, butt plugs and more. Or click through to specific items on the banners to the side of this page!


Have fun in your sexy sex toys quest!