I have been musing recently on how some women are like cats, and some like kittens.
Most women, it would seem, tend to have the desire to emit a somewhat feline personality, with the characteristics and traits that would entail, excuse the pun.
I never really saw myself as a 'kitten' or a 'sex kitten' even in the usual, vanilla, sexual allure way. Does sex kitten denote prey or predator? Certainly high heels seem predatory in today's society, but then the inability to run away when needs-be would deem them somewhat restrictive. 'kitten' heels are lower, why? To make the female not as tall as the male yet still show leg tone? All very interesting terms.
I am not a Fetish 'furry', in any sense. I dislike the idea of donning a tail. Ears yes. Ears are cute. Tails, whiskers, having fur, no. I like to be entirely fur-less thank you, except for my head mane! ;)
Being a Leo I have always had the hot wildness and wilful spirit. Ability to stalk and pounce, roar loudly but then relax languorously, stretched out in front of some warmth or draped over something/one comfortable.
I am not really an independent cat... although in previous times I have been more vicious cat with claws rather than anything resembling kitten-like.
Recently though I have been named as Kitten and I do see those traits appearing... not the independence, I am a kitten of dark painful past, that needs tlc, stroking, love, hugs, warmth... tempered with regular rutting of course ;)
I will run free for a little while, yet always return to where I feel loved. Miaow loudly when I have wants and demands, yet roll over and instantly purr when tended to. Give me a roaring hot fire to curl up in front of and slowly stretch out as I seep up the warmth and I am a happy kitten. A comfortable blanket or throw and I'm even happier. Give me the one who tends to and sates me, his hands on me holding me, comforting me, teasing me, reassuring me... I am contented.
I do not parade on all fours, crawling is not for me. Neither is mewing or 'furry' type pawing in public. I do speak my mind and I am a human being!
It does seem there there are some who are kittenesque and some who are more Bagpuss or Garfield in the cat/woman type world. I fear becoming the latter, I like to be nimble, lithe, quick on my feet, easily able to stalk prey and wriggle and writhe then leap away when needs be... yet light enough to be pinned down and overpowered, overwhelmed, paws pinned and my piteous mewing silenced by a strong hand against my mouth, all attempts to bite sharply cut off along with my air...
... and now I must go, to return to the warmth beside the hearth, to his strong arms around me, stroking me, making me arch my back in pleasure, arching so painfully it hurts for days afterwards.
Love comes in warmth, fireplace basket times and perfectly pleasurable purring.
~mews~
xxx
Got this comment on one of my Facebook photos yesterday which made me laugh. From a cosmetic surgeon, funnily enough.
hi baby best figure
but baby u have lots of stretch marks get them treated u will be just yummy
My reply?
Ill be yummy after I get the stretch marks removed? Yes I have stretch marks. Im a real woman, Ive had a baby - and a life. Im proud of the fact Im real, not some cut to pieces, reinjected, fake tanned out of all human skin tone range, photo shopped, air brushed, pop candy, lad mag star wanna be. Im me, Im a mum, Im real, this is how I look in real life. I dont remove my hair/teeth/tits any other part of my body when I get into bed, I still look like who I am. Don't like it? Get a blow up doll.
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How sad that a woman can't be just pale, with yes her marks from life, having lived. I dont think my stretch marks are excessive but I have had two pregnancies. Things happened in my life before the pregnancies that has led to other faded marks. I'm not a victim in life, Im a soldier.
I won't have a tummy tuck or a boob job, but then the only thing silicone about me when I do get (even!) older will be half the contents of my toy box.
So what is it with lingerie designers thinking women don't want to feel sexy all day? Recently I started to shop for more sexy lingerie. I'm running low in that department! Yes, I know, hard to believe.
The majority of my sexiness is contained in small clubbing outfits, corsets and fetish wear. You know, the usual: latex, PVC, leather. Hundreds of shoe boxes piled high with stripper heels, boots with length choices of ankle, mid calf, knee or thigh and plenty of dress shoes and others.
Then it hit me: What about the bottom (so to speak) layer?
A few days ago I finally got round to throwing out anything in my wardrobes that wasn't pretty or sexy. You know the sort of thing, girls.
Those faded 'big pant' knickers that are oh-so-comfy but oh-so-grey.
The thong that's hanging onto life by a few desperate, tenuous threads.
The comfy/slobby t-shirt that's about 3 dress sizes too big that you hide in round the house on 'those' days. Actually, I think that's a man's t-shirt. No matter.
Possibly the pyjamas that have almost worn through round the crotch area then when you read the label, you realise why they're so comfy... ah... 'maternity'. Shame.
Well anyway. All gone. This spring cleaning of my drawers (ha! see what I did there) has left a vacuous space (stop it) which desperately needs filling (I give up).
Time to devote a bit of time to lingerie shopping! I hit the sexy lingerie button on my favourite sexy site, and had a browse.
Unfortunately, a lot of the admittedly lovely and lacy items seem to be designed to be worn for a maximum of half an hour, during which time your lover oohs, ahhs, caresses, undresses, does the business then puts the kettle on. The latter may just be a personal habit.
I want to wear my sexy lingerie during the day! Not just for a partner but for ME. I want to feel sexy, seductive, confident. Have a raunchy little secret that I only I know, that I may care to share with a lover if they're lucky.
What I do not want is to become an annoyed, slightly sticky with persipiration, entangled mess of lace and ribbons gathered round my middle with my trousers round my ankles tripping me over every time I need to *whispers* use the loo.
So, all-in-one bodices are out at the end of that round of shopping. There is a time and place for a £30-50 all in one lace body that I'll be able to wear for 30-60 mins max and frankly, it's when I'm not paying.
I've put together a list of the lingerie that I'm planning to own in the near future, to build up my sumptuous sexy lingerie collection.
You can find my list here. These are my checked out, lavatory friendly, still oh-so-sexy, items of lingerie that can be worn all day, under work clothes or jeans or whatever you wish!
My favourites are:
Penthouse Lingerie Cherry Bra and Panty Set (find matching corset here)
Penthouse Lingerie Cupcake Bra and Panty Set (find matching corset here)
G World Fishnet Bra Set
Seven Til Midnight Bra with Polka-Dot Ribbon and Matching G-String (in pink or black)
Forplay Luxe Secret Desires Bra Set
Music Legs Mesh Two Tone Halter Bra and Thong Set
and the fabulously raunchy:
G World Seduction 4 Piece Garter Set
I hope you enjoyed my little delve into the world of lingerie for real women, who not only love sex, but live & breathe it too!
There are plenty more pieces of sexy lingerie to sample on my top practical choices list here.
Enjoy!
Until next time, stay sexy, blog angels!
Cara
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